Holidays Without the Kids: Real Talk for Single Moms, Co-Parents & Empty-Nesters | EP 31

In this honest and heartfelt episode, Tiffany and Jeanette dive deep into what the holidays really feel like when you’re a single mom, co-parent or newly empty-nester. From navigating custody schedules to battling loneliness, rewriting traditions, handling guilt and embracing new seasons of life, they’re breaking down the real challenges — with zero sugarcoating and lots of compassion.

Whether this is your first holiday without your kids or one of many, this conversation gives you practical tips, mindset shifts and emotional tools to help you create joy, peace and meaningful memories on your own terms.

• The emotional rollercoaster of holiday custody schedules

• Why kids adjust way better than parents think

• Avoiding guilt, comparison and pressure during the season

• The fear of kids “forgetting” old traditions and what actually matters

• How to avoid interrogating kids after switching homes

• Giving your kids permission to enjoy time with the other parent

• Loneliness during the holidays and how to cope in healthier ways

• Rewriting your holiday traditions as a single parent

• Creating a life outside motherhood so kids don’t feel responsible for your happiness

• How flexibility and healthy communication make co-parenting smoother

• Why it’s okay if your holiday looks non-traditional

• Travel, solo rituals, Friendsgiving, volunteering and more creative ideas

• A powerful reframe for empty-nesters during the holiday season

Children adapt well when both homes feel emotionally safe and pressure-free.

If you approach the holiday with peace, acceptance and joy, your kids won’t carry guilt or sadness.

Your home and traditions don’t need to match anyone else’s. Embrace your strengths and style.

Find meaningful rituals, volunteer, host friends, or plan solo traditions that replenish you.

Kids remember moments, jokes, experiences — not the specific gifts or the picture-perfect setup.

Don’t let others feed your resentment or guilt. Protect your peace.

Your kids will create their own lives. Support them, show up with love and avoid pressure.

• Confirm holiday plans early to avoid last-minute tension

• Let kids call you on their schedule, not yours

• Swap guilt with curiosity: “Did you have fun? What was your favorite part?”

• Plan a “date night with yourself”

• Join or host a Friendsgiving or cookie-decorating party

• Consider traveling on years you don’t have the kids

• Volunteer to fill your cup and shift your energy

• Don’t expect the kids to always come home — sometimes you go to them

• Create duplicate celebrations on alternate days

• Tiffany’s ritual of Christmas Eve alone with gift wrapping, movies and peace

• Jeanette sharing how her quiet weeks help her recharge before the chaos weeks

• The funny “inside jokes and accents” tradition Tiffany and her daughter share

• Creative Christmas surprises like scavenger hunts and clues

• The reminder that kids rarely remember gifts — they remember experiences

• Nostalgic reflections on how parents shouldn’t expect kids to maintain old traditions

• Discussions about setting boundaries with family who unintentionally feed negativity
  
  
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