In this candid and unfiltered episode of Holistic Dose, Tiffany and Jeanette break down one of the most common myths about love—the idea that there’s a perfect partner waiting for you. From Disney fairy tales to religious teachings and 90s rom-coms, society has set impossible standards for relationships that often lead to disappointment.

Jeanette opens up about her own experience with marriage, shedding light on the red flags she ignored and how her belief that "God will bring me the one" led her down the wrong path. Tiffany shares her reflections on how growing up in a world filled with magazine quizzes and fairy tale romance shaped her views on love—and how those views didn’t always match reality.

Together, they explore:
How early experiences and cultural myths influence our relationship choices
Why chemistry doesn’t last, but compatibility does
The importance of embracing imperfections in your partner
How social media distorts what real love looks like
Why midlife brings a new perspective on relationships and self-worth

If you're tired of chasing perfection and want to focus on building authentic, lasting relationships, this episode is for you. Listen in and discover why finding the right partner is more about being true to yourself than searching for a "perfect match."

Timestamps:
0:00 – Introduction to the Myth of the Perfect Partner
2:00 – Jeanette's Early Marriage & Red Flags
4:00 – The Influence of Religious Teachings on Relationships
6:00 – Tiffany Reflects on Growing Up with Romanticized Love Stories
8:00 – Why Chemistry Fades, But Compatibility Lasts
10:00 – The Dangers of Romanticizing "Soulmates" and "You Complete Me"
12:00 – How Social Media Distorts Reality
14:00 – Flaws in Relationships and the Importance of Authenticity
16:00 – Reframing What Matters in a Partner at Midlife
18:00 – The Reality of Relationships in Your 20s vs Midlife
20:00 – How to Embrace Imperfections and Build Real Connection
22:00 – Conclusion: Love is About Growth, Not Perfection

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